Sometimes when I experience pain, loss, and suffering in my
life, clear thoughts are fleeting. Thus,
I decided to share a blog my sister sent me, which has been very helpful and
meaningful during this stage of my healing journey.
This excerpt/synopsis was taken from www.epperlyadventures.blogspot.com September 25th, 2018 and was written by a local
doctor in a small town in Iowa that my sister Linda works with.
My Dad, my son, and I just finished a grueling hike to the
bottom of the Grand Canyon. This was an
incredible challenge for us. For normal
individuals, this hike is daunting at best, but for my father and son, it was
miraculous.
You see, my father was struck by an out of control driver
while changing his tire on the side of a highway. Both femurs were obliterated and he was left
for dead. He was not expected to live,
let alone walk again. However, through
strong faith, perseverance, and months of rehab, he began to walk again and at
age 67, has logged thousands of miles. He has even trekked up and down the Grand Canyon four times.
My son, Beau, was diagnosed with Schizencephaly when he was
1 year old, and we thought he would never walk, run, ride a bike. Yet, at the age of 10, he had persevered
through multiple braces, hours of PT/OT, and chronic pain. Most people do not
realize that he has been plagued by this disease. And, Beau trained hours for this trip.
I tell you these stories to applaud the grace of our God,
and the power of faith and reliance on him. They could have wallowed in self-pity, but instead they chose to
"look to him who gives strength"(Isaiah 40:31), and day by day, put
one foot in front of the other.
Paul says it best in James 1:2-4: "Consider it pure joy, my brothers and
sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the
testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete,
not lacking anything."
In Romans 5:3-4, Paul says "We also rejoice in our
sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance,
character; and character, hope."
Beau and my Dad would have never succeeded if it wasn't for
their hours of hard work and training. I'm so proud of their physical accomplishments, but I'm even more proud
of the spiritual insights, growth, and maturity they gained through this
arduous process.
Prayer: As the
author's Dad said, "Life's goal is character, not comfort. If one could go down and back up the Grand
Canyon on an escalator, it would not have the same impact on our mind, body, or
soul. The beauty would be seen, but we
would fail to be molded by the experience.
The barriers are the blessing!"
Father God, guide me with your grace, your Word, and your
infinite Love, to be molded by the barriers I am facing so as to become
stronger, wiser, and more like you. I want to work hard with your guidance, to
heal and grow from this experience.
Thank you always for your unconditional love and direction.
Connie Barry
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