What's Your Story? Do Others Need Me?

One evening the plans I had got cancelled. I am single and I was feeling lonely and bored. I felt sorry for myself for a while, sitting on the couch doing nothing.

But then I felt like God brought my niece and nephew into my mind. The last one had graduated from high school. I had enjoyed a good relationship with them, texting back and forth with them in West Virginia. I wondered now if they still needed me; I didn’t know what my role was now that they were older.

I decided to ask my niece, age 20, if there was anything I could pray about for her. She texted right back with a big concern. I said I would be happy to pray for her: she said thank you so much, so she still needed me.

On a roll, I texted my nephew. He was to enter college in the fall, moving into the dorm and playing in the marching band. I asked him questions and he confided that he was very nervous about all the new things that college would bring. I told him I would pray for him and he said thank you very much.

So I learned that they still needed me to love them, keep in touch with them, and to pray for them.

Nancy Brumbaugh

 * What’s Your Story? 

This summer, we invited members of our Eastridge community to explore ABCs of Faith: Simple Stories for Complex Times. In this series, we will be exploring stories from the Bible that tell us about God and God’s people. But our faith is also carried through our own stories.

When someone asks, “What’s your story?” they’re asking about the moments that shaped you: the people, experiences, challenges, and turning points that made you who you are. Scripture is full of such stories—and so are we.  

Throughout the series, we’ll offer prompts connected to the themes we’re exploring. You’re invited to share a brief reflection on any prompt that resonates with you—especially a moment that changed your mind, your heart, or your life. Selected stories may be shared (with your permission) in our newsletter, devotionals, or even during worship. 

Words from Second Corinthians

And he said to me, "my grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness." 2 Corinthians 12:9 

What's Your Story? “A time when a child spoke or revealed a truth that others needed to hear”

A memory that still awes my wife and I was when we were reading from the book, Bambi, to 5-year-old son, Peter. I was reading a portion of the story when the Great Stag and the young deer, Bambi were going down a path and found a dead hunter. (Yes, not expected from a book about Bambi. The movie version was much more delicate about such things.) Meanwhile, the Great Stag, who is a mentor to the young Bambi sees this encounter as a teaching moment. So, the Great Stag acknowledges the fact that hunter was like a god who feared the deer. However, in front of them is a dead hunter. Bambi questions how this happens and why. The Great Stag just simply said that there is "Another" who cares for all of us. Now this is where the power of the story makes an impression on our 5-year-old son, Peter.  Peter just simply said to Cathy and me, "Bambi found God!" We were just silent and very moved by a simple observation that Peter made. For us, that was a moment of faith to which our son, Peter, years later finds true for him as an adult. Yes, Peter will admit that he has grown and matured in his faith, but that memory is very clear. 

Jesus said to let the little children come to him and to not deny them. And indeed, that memory has been quite real and awesome for Cathy and me today.

Pastor John J Duling

 * What’s Your Story? 

This summer, we invited members of our Eastridge community to explore ABCs of Faith: Simple Stories for Complex Times. In this series, we will be exploring stories from the Bible that tell us about God and God’s people. But our faith is also carried through our own stories.

When someone asks, “What’s your story?” they’re asking about the moments that shaped you: the people, experiences, challenges, and turning points that made you who you are. Scripture is full of such stories—and so are we.  

Throughout the series, we’ll offer prompts connected to the themes we’re exploring. You’re invited to share a brief reflection on any prompt that resonates with you—especially a moment that changed your mind, your heart, or your life. Selected stories may be shared (with your permission) in our newsletter, devotionals, or even during worship. 

Scents

God saw all that he had made, and it was very good. And there was evening, and there was morning—the sixth day. Genesis 1:31

“Come and see what God has done, his awesome deeds for mankind!” Psalm 66:5

During our recent sermon series on nature, two magazine articles I read made me think of how scents correlate with our nature experience, but also slowing down and paying attention.

One was in TIME magazine, an essay listing the benefits of “stopping to smell the roses”. This phrase is often used to describe how we should take time to notice things and not rush through life, but in this case the author meant it literally.

Benefits of this include:

We’re experiencing the world through physical engagement, not digitally (in other words, you can’t smell a flower on your iPhone.) Try going for a “scent walk” in your neighborhood or on a nature trail…it’s a lesson in paying attention!

Here’s something you may not know: when you intentionally stop to smell something you anticipate being pleasant (in my opinion this is key: if it’s testing the milk for sourness, disregard!), your heart rate slows and your nervous system “shifts”. In a survey noted in Reader’s Digest, prior to COVID in 2020, we didn’t rate our sense of smell as highly as other senses. But, like anything taken for granted, if we are threatened with its loss it becomes more important.

Our emotions are impacted more by scent than our other senses. Certain scents can trigger relaxation and calmness. Others are more energizing (citrus, pine, etc.). I think of when I’m out photographing nature, the smell of alfalfa and how it brings me back to my childhood on the farm. Our scent memories are shaped in such a way that they are personal and affected by genetics and cultural backgrounds.

Back to that suggestion to go on a "scent walk": you'll likely enjoy the benefits of slowing down, being in nature, and taking your mind off the concerns of the day. A good way to appreciate the wonder of God's world!

Prayer: Dear Lord, thank you for this world you’ve created. Thank you for allowing us to experience it with our senses. Help us to keep curiosity and wonder close at hand. Amen.

Donna Gustafson

I intentionally chose a couple of photos that many will be able to "smell through the screen")!

He Helps Me to be Brave

Fear and trembling have beset me; horror has overwhelmed me. I said, “Oh, that I had the wings of a dove! I would fly away and be at rest. I would flee far away and stay in the desert; I would hurry to my place of shelter, far from the tempest and storm.” As for me, I call to God, and the Lord saves me. Evening, morning and noon I cry out in distress, and he hears my voice. He rescues me unharmed from the battle waged against me, even though many oppose me.” Psalm 55:5-8

“So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” Isaiah 41:10

“The Lord is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer; my God is my rock in whom I take refuge.” Psalm 18:2

“Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock.” Matthew 7:24-25

As a teen, I was often shy, insecure and awkward—which was very difficult. Talking to someone I didn't know well or speaking up in class made me sooo anxious. I desperately wanted to be more socially adept, but struggled with fears of rejection and ridicule. How could I face those fears, which were sometimes not unfounded, when my instinct was to stay curled up in my comfort zone of quietness? 

Slowly, but surely, I began putting myself out there, and found a few successes. I believe these small acts of bravery were made possible by my involvement in church and the encouragement of my parents and friends. More specifically, I believe God was using those circumstances and people to build me up.

Though I knew God back then, I didn't yet have a close relationship with him. The cool thing is, that as my confidence grew, so did my relationship with God. I learned to trust and rely on Him more, and that made all the difference. By the time I was a young adult, I was finally listening to the Holy Spirit, opening my Bible more, praying more, getting more involved in church ministries and most importantly, loving Jesus more. 

In recent years, I've faced very difficult circumstances that required a new level of bravery. For example, when my dear mom needed me to sit with her in hospice—to share meaningful conversations with her, and be supportive, caring and present—it seemed like a daunting task. (All I wanted to do was fall apart.) But since I knew Whom I could call on, Who would be with me and Who would be my Rock, I did not fall apart. God whispered, “Don't be afraid. I will strengthen you and help you.” And sure enough, He did. Every time God has helped me to be brave, my courage and my faith have been strengthened. I know there will be more difficult circumstances ahead, but thankfully, He's given me a rock-solid foundation on which to build my life.

Sharon Irvin

 * What’s Your Story? 

This summer, we invited members of our Eastridge community to explore ABCs of Faith: Simple Stories for Complex Times. In this series, we will be exploring stories from the Bible that tell us about God and God’s people. But our faith is also carried through our own stories.

When someone asks, “What’s your story?” they’re asking about the moments that shaped you: the people, experiences, challenges, and turning points that made you who you are. Scripture is full of such stories—and so are we.  

Throughout the series, we’ll offer prompts connected to the themes we’re exploring. You’re invited to share a brief reflection on any prompt that resonates with you—especially a moment that changed your mind, your heart, or your life. Selected stories may be shared (with your permission) in our newsletter, devotionals, or even during worship. 

Words from Psalm 94

When anxiety was great within me, your consolation brought me joy. Psalm 94:19 

Words from Zephaniah

The Lord your God is in your midst...he will rejoice over you with joy, He will be quiet in His love. Zephaniah 3:17